tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1756594214590092989.post1829689873125292665..comments2012-12-09T16:36:44.055-08:00Comments on Infinite Wisdom: EXPECT THE BESTDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12998405771389800485noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1756594214590092989.post-15590733494397706222012-02-04T18:54:06.877-08:002012-02-04T18:54:06.877-08:00You can ask him to voice his concerns to you in pr...You can ask him to voice his concerns to you in private and you can actively begin to listen to what you are saying and become conscious of what everyone is hearing. If more than one person is pointing out that you are negative than it is time to listen to them and to the words and thougths you are using. As you listen to yourself, become aware of whether you are being critical of other people's ideas or just seeing the negative side of what they are saying. If you want to change this, then as you listen to your thoughts and words, you begin to choose other words that are positive and supportive. If you cannot find these words, just be quiet and listen to the wisdom in your heart. Be open to seeing life through a new lens that is supportive of your hopes and dreams and others. It takes one step at a time. If you don't want him to shout to the world that you are negative, select new words. <br /><br />I am a life coach and do offer life coaching sessions for people who want to make change in their lives. If you are interested in this, you can find more information on my website at http://www.energytransformations.org Click on the link for services.<br /><br />I wish you the best on your journey to bringing joy and inspiration to others.Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12998405771389800485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1756594214590092989.post-75561117147914487872012-02-03T17:41:56.233-08:002012-02-03T17:41:56.233-08:00My husband, kids and our two very close married fr...My husband, kids and our two very close married friends call me negative all the time. I don't get that from co-workers or other friends, who always say I am upbeat and positive. I am trying to see how I am portraying this negative attitude towards them but not the outside world.<br /><br />I sometimes feel if it my husband fault because if he doesn't like what I said he will constantly call my thoughts or comments negative. I try to explain how everyone respects him and if he continues to tell me in front of friends and family that I am negative that they will start to repeat the same thing. <br /><br />I feel that if he needs to correct what I say or my actions he should do it in private. I explain to him that I never chastise him in front of others because it is not fair that how I may be feeling, which may or may not be valid should not sway the view of others that should form there own opinion.<br /><br />I would like to understand how to come to terms with the fact that maybe I am being negative toward my family if that is case. How I can get my husband to stop shouting to the world that I am negative.MommiFonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10121958975697048620noreply@blogger.com